Her Light

It’s happening now!

I don’t think that I have ever admitted to you that I am impatient. Yes, behind this cool demeanor, this unflinching persona, this stoic expression is a flurry of uncut, unadulterated, raw impatience.  This is not something that I am just learning about myself.  Oh. No.  I’ve always known; however, it was way too much…

Go ahead; touch it…

Have you ever had someone come up to you and ask if they could touch your hair?  I have.  Lots of times.  I’m not like many others.  My response is actually, “Sure.” And then I lean in, so they can get an easy feel. Let me start at the beginning. I think about my my…

How intelligent are you, emotionally?

It’s in your best career interest to get emotional with me. He never realized that people kept leaving.  They didn’t want to be a part of his team, and he had no idea.  They weren’t mean or condescending before leaving; they just left.  The sad part:  He never considered (or even knew to consider) researching why…

SHADE: 5 Things to Know Before You Throw

I used to get a kick out of watching folks throw shade, that is, until some someone smacked me in my right jaw with a palm full of shade.  It came out of nowhere, and I began to re-evaluate my “just for kicks,” view of shade.  I was appalled.  I felt disrespected.  Then, I was in…